Women are everything that spells love, care, sympathy, nurture and affection but not all women fit this category. There is a particular specie which is in fact quite to the contrary. I have noticed that particularly overbearing wives are the worst of them all; their behavior is pathetic towards their husbands; they despise, insult, humiliate and control their husband as a military commander with a whiplash in hand.
I know of several women in my acquaintance whose husbands I feel deeply sad for. I wonder how those men can allow themselves to be treated thus.
My student's father who was a millioner businessman had a vicious wife. She scolded him like a street dog in front of all domestic servants and was so overbearing that if anyone of the office staff forgot to wish her she demanded her husband to immidietly fire the employee; furthermore, she would not allow him to hire any female employee, not even for the post of a receptionist and actually got a man installed in the office to keep watch on him like a detective.
My music teacher is an exceptional singer and an instrumentalist and we all students had so much loved his music but his wife hates the same and has banned him from singing or playing any music at home or accept any home tuitions for music. Tragically, he had to give away or sell his many beloved musical instruments which he had at one time spent a fortune in collecting. He dolefully says now, " Before my marriage I was Asim. After my marriage to Rekha I have become Rekha. Asim has died somewhere within me."
An uncle of mine is an artist and you should see how his wife hates his art or everything related to it. Many a times his tools are thrown in the trash bin.
A distant cousin of mine has a wife who he is terribly afraid of; so whatever he does he never tells her for fear of getting scolded. On the other hand the wife strives hard to know what he does by following the back staircase method. Must be a cat and dog situation all the time !!
A friend of mine had strictly forbidden her husband to talk or make/recieve calls from his female students or even in social gatherings. If she even by chance saw him talking to any girl she would turn real ugly with rage. Once a girl just happened to praise her husband's shirt and you know what, on returning back she took a pair of scissors and cut the shirt in 1000 pieces. On another occasion, he randomly praised the sandwich a girl had offered him and then that poor fellow had to eat ONLY sandwiches in all the meals of a day for a whole week. Another acquaintance of mine happens to be a beautiful woman and has a very nice husband but she thouroughly dislikes him and his ideals and principles, insults him in front of visitors or friends and behind his back as well. She thinks she deserved a better husband, he is unfit for her and is just good for nothing.
The latest and perhaps the most disgusting instance is of a wife who continually scolds her husband so much that he looks like a scared mouse all the time. She scolds him or speaks insultingly about him all the time and in front of everyone. Just a single frown on her face is enough to send him into a titzy and immidiately mend his mistake. Poor poor fellow...
There are numerous such examples.
It is disgusting how some women derive pleasure or satisfaction ( maybe neither because it is their normal behavior ? ) in making their counterpart miserable. No, I am not looking at just one part of the picture, nor am I an orthodox who thinks a wife is a slave of her husband. The examples which I have mentioned are the ones whose faimlies I am well aquainted with and I can say with perfect confidence that the wife's unreasonable attitude is the main culprit and yes, they are not the usual tit bits of a happy couple fighting.
